Nick Viall Teases ‘TBD’ on Future With Girlfriend Natalie Pleasure

He could be the writer of a guide about relationship recommendation, however Nick Viall is aware of his girlfriend, Natalie Pleasure, can educate him a factor or two about love too.

“Not solely taught me, however she’s proven me methods to be current,” the 42-year-old former Bachelor stated on Us Weekly’s “Right here for the Proper Causes” podcast. “I will be very introverted, and I’ve been accused at instances in my lifetime of being aloof. And aloofness mixed with being 6’2 has become some individuals considering I could be dismissive or impolite and I get defensive as a result of I’m considering, ‘Nicely, no, I’m sorry. I used to be simply fascinated with one thing else.’ And whereas I need individuals to know that it’s not deliberate, it’s my accountability — if I don’t wish to make individuals really feel that approach — to work on my weaknesses. And she or he has proven me simply how necessary it’s to take the time in any second — whether or not you’re getting a espresso at a barista otherwise you’re trying out on the grocery retailer, these little moments of seeing individuals and making them really feel validated is absolutely particular on a day-to-day foundation and particularly in a relationship.”

Viall and Pleasure, 24, have been linked since 2020.

“She’s additionally somebody who actually is aware of methods to take breaks,” the “Viall Information” host continued to Us. “And in terms of disagreements in a relationship, as a man — not everybody’s the identical — however males will be extra responsible of making an attempt to make things better with out, like, letting feelings get out. And Natalie is aware of methods to get us to take time now if we’re not on the identical web page early on. And that helps us from not, like, letting a minor disagreement escalate into a much bigger battle. That’s one thing I had quite a bit in my [past] relationships and I performed simply as a lot of a task as my exes did as effectively. And so she actually helps me with that.”

When requested about the way forward for the connection with the surgical technologist, Viall responded, “TBD, however I like the place issues are headed.”

In his new guide, Don’t Textual content Your Ex Completely satisfied Birthday, the Wisconsin native offers recommendation about worrying concerning the strain of a timeline in a relationship.

“We’re not affected person individuals. And society places plenty of strain on us. Despite the fact that it’s not Fifties anymore, we’re nonetheless having our dad and mom and our buddies being like, ‘Why are you single? What’s mistaken?’” he defined. “I actually wrote that chapter to youthful me. … I put a lot strain on myself as a younger man to seek out to that dream I set for myself after I was a teen, truthfully, or in my early 20s. I had this arbitrary timeline. Once I turned 25 and had none of that, I had a meltdown. And it’s simply foolish whenever you become older and replicate again and be like, ‘Oh my God. … Think about 25-year-old me having a household?’ Everybody’s totally different. There’s loads of individuals who have wonderful relationships [at a young age].”

Don’t Textual content Your Ex Completely satisfied Birthday is accessible now. For extra from Nick, hearken to Us Weekly’s “Right here for the Proper Causes” podcast or watch the video above.